What Does Chronic Pain Mean? Having Visual Metaphors Can Help You Express What It's Really Like To Live With Chronic Pain
It's almost funny that the single word pain is supposed to mean all of the different sensations you feel when you live with a chronic pain condition. I find it hard to describe in words how different pains physically feel, especially to someone who does not have chronic pain. Sometimes a metaphorical image captures it best.
Nerve pain brings to mind intensity, heat and electricity. My sciatic pain can feel like a zap of electricity – a sudden, searing, mini-bolt of lightning. Describing a hot knife stabbing into you also get the picture across.
Muscle pain might be best described as a tool-kit wielded by a sadistic handyman. The drilling in my head referred from spasmed neck muscles, the throbbing ache in my SI joint like hammer-meets-thumb, the ache between my shoulder blades like a vice grip being tightened.
Deep, internal pain can feel like the pressure of a bowling ball, or worse, a kettle ball, suddenly teleported into your body. If the ball started throbbing, that might capture the feeling of menstrual cramps. Some tools from the sadist's toolkit might join the party, like pliers squeezing and twisting your insides or maybe a hammer pounding on different spots.
Visual Metaphors Can Improve Communication By Evoking Empathy
Visual metaphors are better able to evoke understanding and empathy in others (G. D. Schott). If I tell you about a large needle being slowly inserted into my eyeball, your reaction is likely to cringe, grimace or squint your eyes.
When you hear someone describe an image of something happening to them, your brain will "mirror" that experience – you imagine what it would feel like for the same thing to happen to you.
We have neural pathways, called mirror neurons, devoted to empathizing with other people this way: "both mirror neuron and alternative neural networks are likely to be enlisted in the empathetic response to images of pain," according to G. D. Scott in a study published in the National Institutes of Health.
Using visual metaphors can help you to describe your pain better to your doctors and your family and friends.
Use The Power Of Your Imagination To Manage Your Pain Better
If you have chronic pain, just reading or hearing descriptions of pain metaphors might start to make you feel tense and stressed. Images can elicit a very physical response, bypassing the analytical parts of our your brain.
If I describe the sensation of a dentist drill, whirring away, drilling a hole deep into my hip joint, how do you feel? In contrast, imagine I describe being in a forest, with sunshine streaming through the trees and dappling the forest floor – do you feel more relaxed? That's the power of our imagination to affect thoughts and feelings.
Visualizing can be a potent way to ease pain and shift attention. Imagining a soothing, or more positive mental picture can significantly lower levels of the stress hormone cortisol. When you enter a relaxed state, your brain releases endorphins, which are natural pain-relieving biochemicals.
Using your imagination is a helpful way to distract from focusing on pain, which is likely another reason that visualization can help to manage pain. Numerous studies have demonstrated that guided imagery reduces pain and improve physical function.
Guided imagery often involves visualizing tranquil natural settings, like walking on the beach or in a garden. The visualization should incorporate all of your sense.
For example, a beach visualization would include the mental image of a beach, but also the sound of the surf and the cry of seagulls, the smell of salt air, the feeling of sand under your feet – you get the idea. There are many websites, CDs and apps that provide sessions you can listen to if you're interested in using this technique.
Another technique involves reframing your original visual pain metaphor or replacing it with a pain reduction visual metaphor.
For example, if you feel like your pain sensation is like being pricked by a hot needle, then you reframe visual to be a cold needle. After concentrating on that, you can imagine the needle itself becoming soft, like a string of spaghetti.
Guided visualization to soothe pain involves minimizing, distancing or numbing the pain sensation. You can imagine the warm oil being poured over tight muscles, for example, or ice freezing out burning sensations. The secret to success with any visualization technique is practice and repetition – it becomes more effective the more you do it.
A Picture Is Worth 1000 Words: Express Yourself Using Art Therapy
Envisioning pain can also go past physical sensations into describing how the pain impacts your life. If I were going to draw a picture of my fibromyalgia, it would be like a cage. I often feel trapped within limitations of what I'm able to do for the pain flares, and I have to stop.
Chronic pain can feel like an alarm that is always blaring – like trying to work through a fire drill. I would probably use colors like bread and orange or grey and black to describe The "feel" of pain.
Not surprisingly, exercises that get you to draw your pain/health condition are also helpful to relieve stress.
"Expressing oneself through [art] makes our thoughts, feelings, and ideas tangible and communicates what we sometimes cannot see through words alone," according to Psychology Today. Creative expression is quite healing, even if it's limited to abstract doodles or colorings. Drawings and collages can also picture positive images that evoke well-being.
What is a visual metaphor for your pain? If you had to draw an image of your chronic pain condition, what would it look like?